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Alumni Spotlight: Jennifer Stewart's Bold Essay Published in How I Learned
by Writing Workshops Staff
3 weeks ago

Jennifer Stewart's fearless and honest essay, "Are You There, God? It's Me, Celibate," was recently featured in the acclaimed publication, How I Learned.
Jennifer, who participated in our Get Out Of Your Own Way: Approaching Writing + Creativity with Mindfulness Zoom Seminar with instructor Blaise Allysen Kearsley, has crafted a piece that's both hilariously relatable and deeply introspective. Her essay tackles the complex intersection of sexuality, spirituality, and modern dating with a wit and vulnerability that exemplifies the kind of brave, authentic storytelling we encourage in our workshops.
How I Learned is known for featuring personal nonfiction short-form and super-short form essays from diverse perspectives, sensibilities, and voices that offer an evocative spin on existential-leaning themes.
Jennifer's essay perfectly embodies this mission. With characteristic humor, she writes, "I'm a grown woman and I haven't had sex since the Obama administration," before diving into a nuanced exploration of sexual agency, religious upbringing, and the reality gap between perception and personal experience. Her ability to find both comedy and profound insight in her journey toward self-acceptance demonstrates the kind of mindful approach to personal narrative that our workshops cultivate.
A Proven Track Record
This latest publication adds to Jennifer's impressive portfolio. The Columbia University graduate has written for prestigious outlets including Texas Monthly, Electric Lit, Texas Highways, DAME, and Runner's World. You can explore her full body of work on her publications page and follow her ongoing reflections on her Substack.
Jennifer has also given back to the WritingWorkshops.com community by teaching her own courses, including Summer Camp for Senior Writers (Aged 50+) and Telling Your Story Through Personal Essay & Memoir, sharing her expertise with the next generation of writers.
The Power of Mindful Storytelling
What makes Jennifer's essay particularly compelling is her unflinching honesty paired with masterful comedic timing.
She transforms what could be a deeply personal struggle into universal commentary on modern relationships, sexual expectations, and the courage to live authentically.
This is exactly the kind of breakthrough writing that emerges when writers approach their craft with mindfulness, observing their experiences without judgment, finding the universal in the personal, and having the courage to tell their truth with both vulnerability and strength.
Ready to Find Your Voice?
Whether you're working on personal essays, memoir, fiction, or any other form of creative writing, our workshops provide the supportive environment and expert guidance you need to develop your craft and find your authentic voice. Ready to begin your own publishing journey? Explore our upcoming online creative writing workshops and discover what's possible when you get out of your own way.